After we discussed the images and how she felt
in each situation. I made the LEAP: "Our mind is powerful.
We can take control the way we think. Sometimes we think about something
that we enjoy and that makes us feel happy, excited, loved. At other
times, we may think about something that is going wrong and we feel nervous,
frustrated, angry, scared. So what we think affects they way we feel".
I asked her to give me some other examples of
when she has unpleasant feelings in school and to say what she is thinking.
Most of the times she stated that she thinks that she cannot do it, that
she is not smart, that all her classmates are better than her. All
this makes her feel dumb and angry. She then stops working. We discussed
what would happen if she changed the way she was thinking. If she
thinks she can make it, if she thinks that she is good at school.
What would she feel? What would change if she was feeling good?
She said that she would work better. |