A Group to Develop Frienship Skills in Kids
Target Population
Starting at an early age and continuing throughout life, we constantly find ourselves in situations where interacting with others is necessary. Knowing how to be a friend is one of the most important jobs in life. Many children begin learning the skills necessary to develop positive frienships when they start school and they begin socializing with other children their age. However, this process does not come naturally to everybody. There are many children who are having trouble developing the social skills they need to make friends. As a result, children feel isolated, disliked or rejected. As counselors, we should be aware of the student's feelings and be able to identify those who are struggling with establishing frienships. The purpose of this group is to help students discover the basic aspects of frienship. This is done through a variety of play therapy techniques desgined to facilitate the learning process. The techniques
were developed with the upper elementary grades in mind. Nevertheless,
they can be modified to whatever level you wish to work with. The
group should be no more than 6 kids.
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Session 1: Who Am I?
Objective: 1) Have students
become acquainted with each other.
Materials Needed: 1) The Ungame Procedures:
Activity 2- Group Rules
Activity 3- The Ungame
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Session 2: That's What Friends Are For
Objective: 1)To learn about the qualities of friendships.
Materials Needed: 1) CD or cassette player.
Procedures:
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Session 3: Working It Out!
Objective: 1) To identify
difficult situations they may encounter with friends.
Materials Needed: 1) Blackboard and chalk Procedures:
Activity 2 - Work It Out!
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Session 4: "Stick Together"
Objective: 1) To identify
traits that help friends stick together
Materials: 1) Stick
Together Cards (refer to the recommendation section for a list of reproducible
trait cards).
Procedure:
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Session 5: My Friendship Shield
Objective: 1) To review what the students have learned
about friendship.
Materials: 1) Handout of a shield with five blank
spaces
Procedures:
5) Close the session by discussing space #5. Processing Leads:
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