Time:
30 minutes
Materials:
list of group guidelines
General
Procedures:
Processing Hints:
Purpose:
To introduce the
concept of sexuality and provide and opportunity to identify messages
and
feelings about sexuality.
Time:
30-40 minutes
Materials:
several pieces of
newsprint, markers, Feeling Words handout
Procedures:
Purpose:
To
teach
adolescents how to recognize the signs of healthy and unhealthy
relationships, including jealousy, trust, communication, and verbal
abuse.
Time:
40-45
minutes
Materials:
Copies of article "6 Signs Your
Relationship is Bad for You," signs that say "Healthy" and
"Unhealthy,"
printouts of 6 scenarios, two chairs
Procedures:
Time: 45 minutes
Materials: several index cards with
dating scenarios
written on them
Example:
Jose and Sarah have been dating each other for
General Procedure:
Processing
Hints:
How must this person
feel?
What advice would you
give to this person?
What would you do if you
were in this situation?
What attitudes and values
does this person seem to have about sex?
How can this relationship
become “healthier?”
Purpose: The purpose of this
session is to educate the group members to
recognize sexual harassment behaviors so
that
they may discontinue current behaviors or be aware of others’ sexually
harassing behaviors. They will also
learn to
Time: 45 minutes
Materials:
paper and pencils, list of sexual
harassment role plays
Example: Andrew is always telling sexual jokes
General Procedures:
Processing Hints:
What is the sexually harassing behavior here?
How should the harasser
have handled this instead?
What should the victim
do?
3. The leader then
explains that students must be
empowered in order to prevent sexual harassment
from happening.
Discussion Points:
Empowerment is defined as having skills
necessary
to defend yourself from intimidation and harassment.
This means that victims must learn assertiveness in
communicating
with the harasser, as well as reporting the incident to an adult in
charge. The victims must also develop
an attitude of self-respect to either stop sexual harassment as it is
happening
or to realize that it is unacceptable.
Empowered males learn to treat others with respect and dignity,
including
finding positive and productive ways of interacting with females.
Have all the students check-in on how they are feeling that day, including yourself in the check-in..
Go over the topics and feelings that
were covered during these past 5 sessions.
First, discuss the initial feelings the students had on the topics and the group.
Then, talk about how these students came
together in a group. Ask them to give examples of when they felt like a
group and when they did not. Discuss what activities and rules led them
to become a closer group. Have them talk about how important it was for
everyone in the group to participate.
Talk about the second session when they had to discuss messages they were receiving about sexuality from their parents, friends, and the media. Discuss what other messages they have heard since that session. Ask how their opinions about sexuality have changed since that session and throughout the other sessions.
Discuss the third session, where they learned about healthy relationships. Ask them if they have had to apply what they have learned in real life situations and have them give examples. Have them come up with other signs of unhealthy relationships. Could some of the signs have been results from the media or peer messages?
Discuss the relationship between healthy relationships and communicating about sex with your partner. How healthy is a relationship if you cannot talk openly about sex? Discuss how healthy relationships also include being safe about sex and being able to communicate about contraceptives.
Discuss how sexual harassment can occur in relationships, giving the examples of significant others discussing partners' sexual inadequacies and exploits or date rape. Discuss how unhealthy relationships make people feel the same way as sexual harassment does. Have the students give examples of this.
Ask the students if they had any further
questions or comments on the topics or sessions.
Have each student go around and say what the
most important things they learned were, as well as what this
experience has meant for them. Start the go-around to make the stduents
feel more comfortable.
Lastly, hand out the evaluation forms for the students to fill out. Tell them they do not need to put their names on the forms and that these forms will only be seen by you. Tell them how wonderful it was to join them in this experience. Emphasize that your door is always open if they ever need to talk. Tell them that you will check in with them in a few weeks just to see how they are doing.
What Did You Think? |
SA = Strongly Agree A = Agree U = Unsure D = Disagree SD = Strongly Disagre |
1. I
liked being a member of this
group. 2. This group increased my understanding of myself. 3. This group increased my understanding of others. 4. This group increased my knowledge about sexuality. 5. This group has affected my current dating relationships in a positive way. 6. This group has affected my current dating relationships in a negative way. 7. I felt comfortable in this group. 8. I am able to recognize sexual harassment in schools and relationships. 9. I feel more empowered in dealing with sexual harassment. 10. This group taught me the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships. 11. I feel comfortable communicating my sexual attitudes/values. 12. This group changed my sexual attitudes/values. 13. I feel more competent in my dating relationships. 14. I would recommend this group to others. 15. This group had no effect on me |
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